Man I feel bad for you and your family, even if the kids do piss on a fence and ride bikes around.......so what! They're kids. Can't play ball? Yep, I'd be livid myself. Sounds to me like you're dealing with that old paradigm of perpetual misery, gloom, and doom. I'll never understand it as long as I live. I've had similar things happen to me but fortunately I was only renting at the time (could not afford to buy and did not have credit to buy with anyway which is another serious pet peeve of mine as well but off topic)
In retrospect but certainly not in the middle of the situation, I see now that I've been steered away from places that I simply didn't belong, for what ever reasons , by circumstances like you describe. I seriously considered some grave actions against more than one person but in the end I didn't do it. Even payback, revenge that I wanted, I didn't do and I'm glad as I have no strings attached into those situations and places. Most of those people are now dead in their own misery. In fact they were dead while their bodies lived on and were spreading the misery because that's all they knew. Some are still kicking I think but I have no idea of them now. I simply don't care any longer.
Poison people in poison neighborhoods with a poisoned world view. Stubborn, self centered, self righteous, and somehow entitled to just simply be an asshole....I just don't get it. Seems some of the best looking places are the worst to live in. I packed up my family and left those people to their own misery, some of them are in fact my blood relatives, and I never looked back. It forced me to keep searching, for new work, for a new place, for other people to be around. Hatred eats us from the inside and destroys everything around us, as you well know. I wonder where world wars come from? That shit going on there is leftover from those wars and the cultures involved that created them and supported them in the first place. It can be found here in the U.S. too with new flavors of it brewing up.
I did rather enjoy firing up my Harley to go to work at odd hours and I'm sure that a couple of my Pagan ceremonies completely freaked them out. A bit of magic added to the situation (not that everyone believes in such things) but in the end the absolute best thing I did was nothing, but leave. Sell your house to someone they will hate more than you...............but I wouldn't feed the negative shit going on there by participating in it although I might seek relief through civil courts if at all possible. Harassment is definitely real but in the end it turned out that I needed to get away from those assholes completely, before I killed a couple of them.
As fir what message um giving ask yourself what message im giving them by dioing nothing
Don't do nothing, do something positive for you and the family. In a past life I'm sure that I would have piled the bodies up and put heads on poles and then I look at the world we live in now resulting from thinking and living like that. I have to work hard to overcome that kind of mind set as it was programmed into me by the generation that you are describing. When are we going to change? I ask my wife all the time, "tell me again why I shouldn't go Viking?" and she says "Because they'll shoot you and play it on the news........."
You're right, those kids don't deserve that shit nor do you or your wife if you're seeking not to live your life in that manner. It might just be steering by giving you NEED to find better. I don't know. It's a fucked up situation for sure but like I said I've been motivated by fucked up situations to find way better places and circumstances. In a way I'm still doing it and will likely change work again here shortly in part because of a deliberately created culture of misery, discord, and self centered assholism. I pray that you find a way better place for your family and self where you can just be you. Use it to tighten up the family while you overcome them and get the hell out of there. I know it's easy for me to type this into a forum and it's hard for you guys to live it.........I wish things weren't the way they are..............good vibes and well wishes to you and the family...........
Edited by Arathu, 09 July 2017 - 07:50 AM.